\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmesini sa\u011flayacak yollar\u0131 deneme-yan\u0131lma y\u00f6ntemiyle bulabilirsiniz. Bu ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in ba\u015fvuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yol ne kadar g\u00f6rsel olursa, alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sonu\u00e7 o kadar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n
\u00d6rnek: E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz k\u00fcvetin deli\u011fi taraf\u0131ndan yutulmaktan korkuyorsa, deli\u011fi bir bez par\u00e7as\u0131yla t\u0131kayabilirsiniz.<\/div>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Bak\u0131\u015f A\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 De\u011fi\u015ftirin!<\/strong><\/p>\n\u00c7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 basmas\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00f6ce\u011fin g\u00f6lgesini bile g\u00f6rmesi yeterli geliyorsa, ona zarars\u0131z b\u00f6cekler hakk\u0131nda kitaplar, hikayeler okuyun, onunla birlikte b\u00f6cek resimleri \u00e7izin. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz b\u00f6cekten korkma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine son verirse, ger\u00e7ek b\u00f6ceklere kar\u015f\u0131 duydu\u011fu korkuyu da yenebilir.<\/p>\n
Yanl\u0131\u015f D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri Kafas\u0131ndan Silin!<\/strong><\/p>\nSa\u00e7 kestirmenin b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclecek bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, zira sa\u00e7lar\u0131n ac\u0131mayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kanamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kuaf\u00f6r\u00fcn kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131rpmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorsunuz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz da do\u011fru bilgileri \u00f6\u011frendik\u00e7e daha az korkmaya ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
<\/span>4\u20135 Ya\u015f Evresindeki \u00c7ocuklar<\/span><\/h3>\nSoyut konular\u0131 anlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131k\u00e7a, okul \u00f6ncesi \u00e7ocu\u011fun korkular\u0131 daha karma\u015f\u0131k bir hal al\u0131r. G\u00f6zlerinin g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri kadar zihninin oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 oyunlar da korkmas\u0131na neden olur. \u00c7ocuk, yata\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131ndaki canavarlardan, anneyle baba giderse kendisine ne olaca\u011f\u0131ndan bu ya\u015fta korkmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bu ya\u015f d\u00f6nemi k\u00e2buslar\u0131n da en \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc d\u00f6nemdir. Hen\u00fcz ger\u00e7ekle hayal \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc birbirinden ay\u0131rmakta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7eken okul \u00f6ncesi \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in gece g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc k\u00e2buslar fena halde ger\u00e7ektir.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
<\/span>4-5 Ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00c7ocu\u011funuza Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/span><\/h4>\nOnun Sorular\u0131n\u0131 Dikkatle Yan\u0131tlay\u0131n<\/p>\n
Bu ya\u015flardaki \u00e7ocu\u011fu en \u00e7ok endi\u015felendiren \u015fey neler olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektir.<\/p>\n
\u201cDikkat k\u00f6pek var\u201d yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde korkarsa, onu sakinle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in k\u00f6pek davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 izah edin. Ancak, k\u0131saca \u201cK\u00f6pek sana zarar vermez\u201d demek yerine daha ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 bir anlat\u0131m\u0131 tercih edin: \u201cK\u00f6pek tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in \u00f6nce seni koklar. K\u00f6pek havlar, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6pekler b\u00f6yle konu\u015fur\u201d gibi bir ileti\u015fimi tercih etmelisiniz\u2026<\/p>\n
<\/span>K\u00e2buslar\u0131na Nas\u0131l Tepki Verece\u011finizi Bilin<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/p>\n
K\u00e2bus g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu sakinle\u015ftirin, ancak, \u00f6rne\u011fin gece sizinle uyumas\u0131na da izin vermeyin. En iyisi k\u0131saca onu teselli ederek yata\u011f\u0131na geri yat\u0131rmakt\u0131r, aksi halde korkusunu onaylam\u0131\u015f olursunuz.<\/div>\n
<\/span>Olumlu \u00d6rnekler G\u00f6sterin<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\nE\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz atl\u0131kar\u0131ncadan korkuyorsa, bask\u0131 yapmadan a\u011fabeyini ya da korkmadan atl\u0131kar\u0131ncan\u0131n keyfini \u00e7\u0131karan bir ya\u015f\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rnek g\u00f6sterebilirsiniz. Kendisiyle \u00f6zde\u015fim kurabilece\u011fi birini g\u00f6rmek, korkusuyla y\u00fczle\u015fmesini sa\u011flayarak onu bir par\u00e7a cesaretlendirebilir.<\/p>\n
Duygular\u0131na Sayg\u0131 G\u00f6sterin<\/strong><\/p>\n\u00c7ocu\u011fun korkular\u0131yla dalga ge\u00e7mek ya da onu, kendisini \u00fcrk\u00fcten bir durumla y\u00fczle\u015fmeye zorlamak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ters teper. Fakat korkular\u0131na gere\u011finden fazla ilgi g\u00f6stermek de do\u011fru olmaz; ger\u00e7ekten tehlikede oldu\u011funa kendini ikna edebilir.<\/p>\n
\u00d6rnek: Her \u015fim\u015fek \u00e7akt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6d\u00fc kopuyorsa, ona k\u0131zmak ya da s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131lmak gibi i\u00e7inizde kabaran duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bast\u0131r\u0131n, bunun yerine onun boyuna inerek, y\u00fcz\u00fcyle ayn\u0131 hizaya gelerek onunla konu\u015fmay\u0131 deneyin.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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Unutmay\u0131n, onlar hen\u00fcz \u00e7ok ufak olsalar da ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 \u015feyler \u00e7ok da ufak olmayabilir… Onlar\u0131 anlamaya, anlamland\u0131rmaya ve sorunlar\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 yakla\u015fmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
2-3 Ya\u015f Sendromu \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 korkular \u00e7o\u011fu zaman mant\u0131ks\u0131z ve ger\u00e7ek d\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in d\u00fcnya ger\u00e7ek ve hayal \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc tehditlerle doludur. Anne…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":73547,"featured_media":18944,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[282],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2382"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/73547"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2382"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2382\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43986,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2382\/revisions\/43986"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18944"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bebek.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}